Hi conan
I admire you to be able to do all of that to help your brother and yourself out , that is alot for one person to do. I don't believe you spend your money on stupid things
If you would check my blog for your state and are you on low income ulitities for electric, gas and phone???
if not call those companies and ask about it. your brother I hope he can get some work have him check craiglist and get emails from jobs sites I have in my blog
http://starshine1.aidpage.com/
I will look for other things in your state
call 211 866 3 hungry for some help I hope
and there are food banks to
We are your parents and relatives???
take care
Starshine